Steve Gyepes 4th February 2009

I struggle with finding the words to describe my sorrow. I feel fortunate to have known Curt as a child and as an adult. Curt and I played volleyball together at Pali, and then worked together in Culver City. Getting to know Curt as an adult was an honor and privledge. As a counselor and then Assistant Principal at Culver City High School, I spent a lot of time with Curt. Even though he was not on staff, he was such an important part of our team, and I remember how he treated the kids and parents that we encountered. Always professional, always respectful, a true gentleman. At times, myself, Jon Flyer, and Curt would sit and talk about growing up in the Palisades, and how ironic it was that we all ended up working together as adults. I think Curt really enjoyed the fact that someone like me who was such a screw up in school ended up becoming an Assistant Principal of discipline. I admired Curt on so many levels, and I always appreciated his unconditional support. Curt wrote a letter of recommendation for me when I applied for the position of Assistant Principal, and he spoke about my character, professionalsm, and genuine intent of trying to serve youth. I was so honored to hear those words coming from a man like Curt. It made me feel like I was being recognized for my work; something that I take very seriously and have worked very hard to establish a respectable reputation. I keep a copy of that letter with me, and it will now be something that I cherish for the rest of my life. Earning Curt's respect meant a great deal to me, and he was always willing to come to school whenever I called for assistance. When I became frustrated in my job, Curt would remind me that even in the midst of discipline issues there was an opportunity to teach. The way Curt went about his work was infectous. He was a true officer of peace and justice, and gave me a new found appreciation and respect for all law enforcement officers. Just as I have worked tirelessly to give public education it's just due, Curt worked twice as hard to show people what it meant to be a true gentleman and officer of the law. When two of my friends who are CCPD came to my office to tell me what had happened, I just couldn't believe what they were saying. After the shock, I went home to be with my wife and kids. I just hope his family knows how much he loved them. He would talk about all the things his kids were up to, and his whole being would be smiling. Although I don't know his children, I would love to tell them one day about thier Dad, and what an amazing human being he was. Curt will be missed by so many people, and that is a testament of the type of life he lived. Curt made a difference, and I will always be grateful for having the opportunity to be in his presence. With love and condolences, Steven Gyepes (Pali'83. Counselor, CCHS).